So my dating life is getting back into full swing, actually, scratch that, I'm about as far from swinging as possible.
I didn't go out with anyone for like a year after Kelley and I broke up. I broke up with her the day before Valentines day 2003 (classy, i know) and then went out only once between that and Valentines Day 2004. My 2004 valentine and I hit it off really well, and I was really into her as we started dating. She's a cute, blonde hair, blue eyed, kindergarten teacher. Exactly the kind of girl i like except for the fact that she's saving herself for marriage. We dated for a few weeks, and eventually I came to realize that it isn't just about the lovin' I wasn't getting, we have a radically different moral code. I don't understand people who feel a connection and want to take a relationship to the next level, but won't. I don't really believe in doing things half-ass, if you like someone, go for it. Try and make it work. Push on and see where it leads, wondering and hoping are not good substitutes for trying. Still, I enjoyed the time I spent with her. I just knew there was too much space between us for any kind of future together.
Dating the kindergarten teacher got my confidence and dating skills back into action, so I promptly asked out another girl i met recently who is like six foot one, works for apple, and seems really hot. She is a former graphic designer, from new york. Surfs, drives a jeep and is funny... all things I like about her. Then I find out that she's 29 and still a virgin. Not waiting for marriage, but unwilling to get involved in any way below the belt. I hate to sound like an ass, but good personality or not, I'm not interested in dating either of the only two virgins over the age of 21 in southern California. I leave each date more frustrated than I was before I went on it. Just with less money.
Can these ladies just smell the desperation in the air that surrounds me? Can they tell I'm pretty much a born-again virgin myself? Is it inappropriate to start asking girls if they are virgins before I ask for their phone numbers? Why? Why? Why?